Dear World
This one is a BIG topic that most of us would rather not address, look at or even go there.
Everything is taken from Real life and there is no made up, Fake or false stuff in this mini presentation.
Where do we start with talking about our Home Life?
What is actually going on in our Home Life every day?
What happens to our Home Life when other areas are in some kind of mess?
How many of us have considered that our Home Life is as important as any other area of Life?
How many of us are living with Double Standards when it comes to our Home Life?
Have we stopped to examine what on earth is going on at Home and what needs our attention?
Have we got the “Getting Away with It” behaviours when it comes to anything to do with Home Life?
Have we got some kind of order and Flow with our everyday routines in our Home Life?
Do we Prioritise and de–prioritise in our Home Life to keep things moving?
Is Home Life for us about shutting the door and doing what we want and how we want with no regard for anything else?
Is Home Life focused around what the neighbours have and what they are up to so we can copy that?
Is Home Life about impressing others and uploading images on Social Media about what we have?
Is Home Life where we Demand that others listen to us and forget we have no time for anything other than I, me, myself?
Is Home Life a licence to rant and vent, then moan and groan to others because they happen to live with us?
Is Home Life where we indulge in our fantasies and Demands and nothing can stop that as it is our domain?
Is Home Life about rewards as we feel entitled to and Demand them because we work so hard?
Is Home Life where we can secretly overeat, indulge in porn or whatever else our Vices are as no one is watching?
Is Home Life full of cooking and watching food programmes because we love the comfort it brings us?
Is Home Life about takeaways and deliveries of anything we fancy because the thought of entering the kitchen is a No?
Is Home Life about binge box TV sets and as much Screen Time scrolling as we can fit in before Eye shut time?
Is Home Life about always having to change the Toilet roll as no one else ever bothers to do this small task?
Is Home Life about dirty dishes that are left until moi gets up and makes the movements to get things done?
Is Home Life where we want to get on with the DIY jobs but it’s been years and there are simply no Changes?
Is Home Life about Chaos and not getting around to a Tidy Up and the Paperwork just piles up and is Ignored?
Is Home Life about dealing with the kids and the other parent who consistently does less and less?
Is Home Life a constant battle to get everyone up on time and out of the door to Work or school or college?
Is Home Life something we dread during the school Holidays as we are running out of ideas and money for the kids?
Is Home Life about putting our pet needs before our own or other members of the Family?
Is Home Life about dealing with the pets that we had, but no longer want as they take up too much of our time?
Is Home Life just a place to get some rest and Sleep as we never stay in one home for too long?
Is Home Life far from what we had growing up and we don’t quite know how it has got to this point?
Is Home Life a place we no longer want to put the key through the door as we don’t want to see the raw Reality?
OR
Is Home Life a place that we Consistently clean and keep order and Flow going in each space?
Is Home Life where we ensure that there is always time dedicated to getting the house Jobs done regularly?
Is Home Life where we respect and value what we do have and appreciate the small stuff?
Is Home Life where we feel settled and don’t need to reach for the phone to Gossip or bitch about anyone?
Is Home Life a place to nurture and nourish our body and take deep care of ourselves in every way possible?
Is Home Life a space that supports us to Let Go of whatever is out there and come inside to a holding bay that lets us rest?
Is Home Life all about deep rest and time for repose after a day’s work to rejuvenate and get ready for the next day?
Is Home Life designed for us to build a strong and solid Foundation which prepares us for whatever life brings?
And Finally,
HOME LIFE is not a separate thing.
It cannot be compartmentalised.
In other words, we do not switch off or change just because we walk out of the front door.
IT IS ONE LIFE and this is worth noting.
What goes on inside our home to the detail is what is going on outside in all other areas of our Life.
That means if there is dis–harmony and dis–order at home then let’s not pretend that work life is somehow going to be great consistently.
Well worth pondering on and SHARPEN UP in all the areas mentioned in this presentation and see and feel the Changes.