Let’s get Real – we all want change
We all want change because we know or feel Something Is Not Right.
Can any of the following apply to us, simply because we can relate to this topic about Change:
Most of us want to change something we don’t like about our life but we don’t know where to start.
Some of us know it is high time for real change but the way we go about it is way off from what is needed.
How often do we talk ourselves into change only to realise that we did not see it through, as we like the Lifestyle we have – thank you very much?
How many of us want the change to happen right now but we do not make the movements to actually Do Something, so things do change?
How many times a day do we repeatedly tell ourselves we are going to change but it’s like our body is dis-obedient and just does what it wants?
Classic example – we are going to slow down on the booze but we finish work and just reach for the drink like we are programmed on auto pilot.
What if1 we ALL do want some kind of change in our life – even if it is something small and not a big deal?
What if2 most of us are not content with areas of our lives and we feel there is a sense of stuck-ness?
WHY are some of us Blaming others for why we have not had change happening in our life?
WHY are we good at sitting on our butts and feeling furious at those that make different choices to change what was not working in their lives?
WHY are some of us busy comparing ourselves to others who have changed and that keeps us stuck even more?
WHY are some of us spending a lot of air time circulating Gossip about others who have made some changes and are not stuck in their lives?
WHY are some of us riddled with fear when it comes to making the move to change, even though we know everyone would benefit, including ourselves, if we just made the step to change?
WHY are some of us waiting until things get bad and when they do, we hang on in there because change feels way too scary to accept and embrace?
WHY are some of us busy whining and moaning about what we don’t like in life but making any change is not on our radar to activate?
WHY are some of us masters at creating Complications and distractions – all because we do not want change?
WHY do some of us go for change as we think it will erase our hurts and we can run from them?
Classic example – we go and move overseas, far away from those who hurt us growing up, but forget that what we hold inside our body remains until we heal it properly and that means getting to the root cause.
WHY do some of us refuse to change full stop?
WHY do some of us hate the thought of change?
WHY do some of us like change as long as it is others doing it and not us having to make the choices in our life?
WHY do some of us Question why we have to change?
WHY are some of us not interested in change as it means making different movements and we like the comfort of how things are, even though we know we are not evolving?
WHY are so many of us reluctant to make real changes in our life even though we know deep down it would work?
WHY are we resisting change when this is part of our natural evolution as a species on this planet?
WHY do some of us dream about change but the feeling of making the move to do so is just too overwhelming?
WHY do some of us fight and campaign for change on a global scale but forget we are unwilling to change first?
WHY do we ra ra and honk our horn about the changes we are going to make but fail to actually carry it through?
WHY do some of us resort to our old ways of living when we know change is not only needed but is inevitable?
WHY do we feel un-comfortable at the very thought of any form of change but never Question why we are like this?
WHY do we avoid and calculate situations, just to ensure change does not happen?
WHY do we procrastinate when it comes to change, even though we do know it always works for us in a good way?
WHY does our lack of Commitment to life always get in the way when we make those steps to activate change?
WHY is it that only some of us see change as an opportunity to evolve from old patterns of behaviour?
A classic real life example – we get inspired by someone who has amazing vitality levels consistently.
They do not have a Perfect Life and they are ok if Mistakes are made.
They do not put their Focus on food, exercise, Social Media influencers or the latest fad to make their body look good or age-less. No No No.
What they seem to have is volumes of common sense and they apply that to their daily living and stick with it, regardless of what the world and its brothers are preaching or teaching out there. (We call that the Media, the policymakers, the influencers, the so called Intelligent academics and those society listen to).
They use every moment like it is an offering from the universe saying – “Here you go, you have a choice which way you go – expand and evolve or reject and retard”, call that involution. In other words, going nowhere.
They understand that the body has a natural sleep and wake cycle and there is a reason why we need to honour our sleep and how we can support that by making some practical daily choices, like having a winding down routine before bedtime, going to bed because we understand the 9 o’clock hoover and not allowing any of the following to alter our natural state of being because the QUALITY of sleep matters –
We do all know change is sometimes needed to stop us in our tracks, when we go down the ill road in life, but we have this ingrained behaviour of not activating change with new choices and then one day… Boom! something happens and we call that “bad” and we are forced to change. That bad could be an incident, accident, illness or disease or it could be the breakdown of a relationship, losing our home or being exposed about our Vices and Secrets that we have been hiding for a long time.
Change can bring closure to that which no longer serves us in life.
Change has meaning and purpose and that is we ALL benefit from the true changes one person makes.
Our seasons are an example of change that continues with a flow, year in and year out.
Our moon cycles bring about change but most of us are yet to learn and know what is on offer for our evolution.
Every opportunity that our life presents opens us up to change and how we react or respond will determine the next step on our path. One supports us to evolve and the other retards us and keeps us stuck where we are.
ALL worth considering because one thing we all know for sure – change is inevitable.