Dear World
WHAT is our STRUGGLE in Life?
WHY do we have any STRUGGLE?
This article is presenting real life STRUGGLE that is going on in our world today
A few IMPORTANT areas of Life where many of us STRUGGLE
SLEEP
Struggling because…
Screen Time hooks us in every night
Social Media is our bedtime routine
We are checking our phone constantly
Eating Junk Foods late at night
Sleep has never been a Priority
There is no proper Bedtime routine
What does Preparing for Sleep mean?
We have not read 9 o’clock Hoover
Early Nights is not on our radar
Going to bed Late on work days
We work Night Shifts
Sleeping aids are not cutting it
Our Tiredness is not addressed
We Ignore how Exhausted we are
We have Jet Lag symptoms even without flying
Taking a Nap on a Day Off never happens
Using Alarms Clocks daily to wake us up
Waking Up is hard work everyday
Making Our Bed is not important
We simply do not value Sleep
HOME
Struggling because…
We have chaos in our home life
Life Admin is not our Priority
Binge TV watching is our Focus
Kids Video Gaming is allowed for hours
Escaping with Online Shopping
We are going to bed Late on work days
Alarm Clock used to wake up
First thing sugar or Caffeine
No Self Care for our Hands and Feet
Putting Things Off
Tidy up every day is not happening
Emptying the Trash never happens
Laundry just gets left
Cleaning the Toilet is low Priority
Toilet Cleaning is expected from others
No one else does the Toilet roll
Excess Cooking, Cleaning and Caring
Worrying about others
Reacting to the unfinished To Do List
Boring Jobs are seen as a waste of time
No Daily Routine
Simply preparing is not happening
Everything feels Complicated
We crave a Simple Lifestyle
WORK
Struggling because…
We are not Committed to good old fashion working
Too much Stress at home
Kids getting more attention than needed
Working less is Priority
Gambling in the break time
Eating excess Junk Foods
Emphasis on next job
Effort on getting pay rise
Don’t feel the money is enough
Our Focus remains on early retirement
Fantasy Holidays bombarding our head
Getting Away with doing much less
Judging others that actually do work
Bothered about what others think
Not Getting On with the actual task
Gossiping instead of working
Cannot Let Go of a comment said last year
Holding On to criticism that is now old news
Delay in our movements so no Changes
Getting caught in office politics
Resentment that another got promoted
Not valuing what we bring to work
Entitled to have breaks constantly
Not preparing for work at home
Eating crap, feeling crap and work suffers
RELATIONSHIPS
Struggling because…
We simply do not express our Truth
There are behaviours of –
Pleasing
Pandering
Playing Nice
Accommodating
Putting up with things
Never sharing feelings
Pretending
Keeping up with others
Fake and Phony
Staying with the wrong partner
Seeking porn without our partner knowing
Looking outside and having affairs
Preferring an arrangement even if its abuse
Avoiding getting close to anyone
Guarded and protected so no one can hurt us
Convincing ourselves that the alone road is best
AND there are many more we could add to the above list…
FAMILY
Struggling because…
We have to make it work – this is Family
Blood means we must put up with anything
Of those images we have how we want it to be
There is Uncomfortableness in their presence
We never feel settled even on the phone
This is Family so we demand they love us
We Invest in the kids more than the marriage
We Ignore what is true and keep the falseness
Using the grown up children as a Band–Aid
Grandchildren are the only reason we live
It’s blood but we never admit we are closer to friends
We hate all the contracts and arrangements we have
Pathetic Excuses for Christmas1 gatherings are not working
Dreading the Birthday thing of Celebration and parties
Of old child behaviours in the presence of parents and siblings
Accommodating to fit in and play the game is our Normal now
Lying about things like work just to look like we are a success
We never dare share the reality of Struggling in daily life
MONEY
Struggling because…
We are not transparent with our Finances and that means we are not Honest and open about our money life, even to our self.
We have DEBT but it is our dark Secret and we hide it from the people we live with and that includes our long term partner.
We over–spend and have a habit of using Online Shopping as a form of self–medication without realising the impact on our money.
We act like we have money with work colleagues but behind the scenes it is an utter struggle of hardship.
We Lie to friends and try and keep up with them like we have more money than we actually do.
We spend money to impress others and inside our body we are going crazy stressing about how this will end up.
We over–commit because the image in our heads tell us that Lifestyle is what we want, but we never did the Maths first.
There is an unrest – unsettlement even when we do have money as the primary focus is on wanting More.
We seek bigger and better Cars because the status symbol outweighs our common sense about money and finances.
We ignore important Emails and the post because they remind us of our Financial responsibilities.
We never check our bank balance and have no idea of what goes out every month or what our real income is.
We have our partner on the second card but never Question1 their spending, which is totally un–necessary most of the time.
We have multiple credit cards but no idea how much interest we pay as we set it up to pay the minimum monthly payment required.
We have a pattern of getting loans to pay off the Debts but soon after there are more credit cards and stores cards.
We have no idea of the actual detail in the contracts we sign for unsecured borrowing – bank loans, car loans, credit and store cards.
We Gamble and everyone knows and that is why there is little or no money left for even essentials like mortgage and rent.
We run a business and wonder why things are not adding up as our private life is a mess when it comes to all things money.
We dream and fantasise about what we want but never Question2WHY we want it and what it is that we are escaping from.
We go stupid at Christmas2 and are comfortable having the Debt to pay it off before the next Christmas3 as that is our modus operandi.
We want the New Year to fix the past year when it comes to money but we make no Practical Changes.
We live with constant Tension and Anxiety because of our poor behaviours in our money life.
We become victims of a scam but before we signed up our body was screaming at us but we chose to Ignore it and then cry after.
We spend endless hours wasted on trying to fight for money that we claim is ours but the law is not working for us.
We demand compensation for this and that but we forget we had a hand to play – what was it and where is our Responsibility?
We have no Road Map to support us on how to bring order and reality to our money life, so that we never struggle ever again.
We have and continue to live without a clear Road Map of HOW to get on Track and END the life of DEBT.
So here it is … Dear World
Simple lists of what many of us STRUGGLE with in our daily life.
What we are not aware of is the impact that this has on our Health and Well-Being.
Have we stopped long enough to consider the compression on our delicate Heart tissue BECAUSE we are living wayward and beyond our means or we are in a Relationship that is totally abusive?
What if we are simply not designed to STRUGGLE in any area of life, regardless of our background or upbringing or anything else we want to label and Blame for our current situation?
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The fact remains – There is Another Way
Another Way to Live that ENDS ALL STRUGGLE