How are we Living when it comes to our homes?
What is going on behind the scenes when we close the front door?
How are we moving and that means what is our behaviour indoors?
What has come to light is many of us are living differently to the image we give out to the world in general.
In other words, we may appear to be living in a way that is not in line with what we are actually living.
Nothing you are about to read is made up or coming from a joke book.
The following questions ought to be considered as they come from Real life and that means as humanity we are doing this.
Do we create this face out there to the world and its brothers that we live in a certain way but in Reality it is nowhere near that?
Do we Hoard and live in a total mess at home, but leave the house looking dapper with our Winston Churchill hat on and polished shoes for the office?
Do we live in utter squalor as we are pissed off with life and take it out on our living space by showing no respect to our home?
Do we have a habit of collecting anything and everything because we have this ‘Just Incase’ syndrome running daily and our home is unable to breathe its own breath?
Do we have our cupboards in chaos and can never find anything, but to a guest arriving everything looks pretty and a picture like it is a ‘show house’ for potential house buyers?
Do we happily look after things that belong to others and clutter up our space and never speak up and say its clogging our home so time to go?
Do we have clients visit our home for a relaxing treatment and we get the entrance area and room ready but forget that we have a total mess behind the other doors?
Do we like the delivery apps which do our shopping and cooking, but we are not great at disposing of the leftover food that stinks up our home?
Do we have no regard for emptying the Trash and washing up daily, so it just gets left until we are forced to do it?
Do we have a lifestyle that can afford cleaners and concierge but somehow we still forget to do the basics like clean up after we have eaten or made a mess in the Toilet?
Do we somehow convince ourselves that cleaning a Toilet is just not our pay grade and has to be the job for someone else but certainly not us?
Do we live a mess and plan to get around to cleaning and clearing up our home one day but in the meantime we are way too busy booking our third Holiday as that’s more fun?
Do we go out to work all day and expect things to magically happen in our home, as that’s what the others should be doing but don’t?
Do we put our Focus on everything but bringing our home into some order and cleaning regularly so things are not just left for that day that never seems to come?
Do we go all out to give the kids everything we never got and forget that they need to learn how to be responsible and do house tasks and not expect new Video Games and the latest trainers?
Do we want others to clean up and clear up for us in our own home as growing up and taking that responsibility is not what we want?
Do we want our mothers and our home help to do the jobs we hate because we view everyday tasks as mundane and Boring?
Do we live in a dream bubble and that means never face the everyday responsibilities and avoid them by doing as little as we can when it comes to house jobs?
Do we act like we are totally On it to all those out there but in Truth we live totally Not On because our home tells us so?
Do we have an underhand illicit life going on inside our home behind closed doors but have a front to fool the world with our nice Car and well-dressed kids we chauffer to school which is a 5 minute walk?
Do we have Businesses that profits from others through a lack of integrity and this enables us to acquire large homes to live a false status in society?
Do we constantly want what others have and so we get into debt just to get those material things and fill our home up with items that lack the love and care we actually want?
Do we live in Online Shopping madness, where the home keeps receiving everything we desire and we have no time to even dispose of the boxes that mount up in our hallway?
Do we have mad moments at home of bringing order and clarity to our chaos so we go shopping on a screen in a false reality that creates even more dis-order once the items arrive one by one?
Do we feel entitled to having certain things because it’s our money and our life but noticed it has made us quite dis-connected in our general interactions and relationships with others?
Do we live in a swanky apartment that has those views that many would die for as they say, but in Truth we live quite a Lonely existence as there is only so much we can post of these images on our Social Media platforms that attract heaps of fake followers?
Do we rent and then sub-let and cram in as many as we can to maximise our income but complain we only have one room to live in?
Do we hate our tiny living conditions, but it allows us to save money and send that back to our Families abroad, as they have less than what we got but we forgot they seem to be more content with less?
Do we have a smell that is stagnating in our home but we put up with it instead of getting on top of it by doing a proper regular clean?
Do we tidy up once a month and blitz the place because the game is on and the lads are coming over with the beers and Junk Foods to keep it all going?
Do we dread the day that someone knocks on our door because we have clearly not been living with Transparency when it comes to our working life?
Do we ensure we have no guests around or very few as we don’t want our homes contaminated by other vibes but we make out we are very open to everyone but it’s not true?
Do we work excess hours just to avoid home life as we hate the tension it brings but do nothing about it?
Do we work and then work some more and have no balance, so home living suffers and the laundry gets left but we find Solutions like buying more so we don’t have to face that pile of ironing?
Do we live in a way where our kids seem to want to be on the streets instead of the home, but we never question why this is happening as we are relieved they are not under our nose?
Do we let the kids run riot at home and wonder why the neighbours step in and say something as the waywardness continues outside the home?
Do we throw everything at the child we have to raise, only to find out that they are not a child but acting like an adult that does what it wants and how it wants with little regard to discipline of any kind?
Do we water the plants and keep the outside of our home looking pretty, but inside we put up silently with the invisible domestic abuse that society has yet to record because it is not physical scars?
Do we live in a constant state of tension and fear in our own home because our partner is drinking Alcohol1 every day and using verbal abuse to attack us?
Do we crave foods at home that do not support our sedentary lifestyle but even going for a walk or cooking a meal with vegetables is nowhere on our radar, so to speak?
Do we have Excuses that we are living like x, y, z because we are on low income, or cost of living affects us eating healthy foods but we have never bothered to test it out to see what is possible with our budget?
Do we feel un-motivated because our ingrained habits are that of zero responsibility when it comes to making the movements to take care of our body and our home?
Do we live in a way that is polar opposite to what we as humans have been designed to live?
Whatever we do or don’t do will affect How we are Living and there is no Getting Away from this.
What we may have yet to realise is how we are TRULY living does affect everyone and everything.